I'm reminded everyday of what a great family I have. I really would be in a tough place emotionally without so many shoulders to cry on. I couldn't be luckier. I received another reminder of my great support system in the mail on Friday.
While I was on my little vacation last weekend I visited a lot of family. Some of them I had seen recently and with some of them it had been at least 2 or three years. It was so great to see everyone. It was especially great to see my cousins Jennifer (27), Angela (25) and Valerie (23). (the girls) I hadn't visited with them since Valerie's wedding I believe two years ago but it may have been three.
I was very disappointed that I was not able to really hang out with the girls. I was actually quite heartbroken that I was physically unable to participate in most of the activities with them like going to the beach, swimming, fishing and boating. I think the family may have sensed the fact that the weekend wasn't going so great for me. I tried to hide it as best I could but probably didn't always do a great job. I was touched that my cousins went out of their way to try and include me in the cabin activities. Actually I was overwhelmed that the whole family tried to include me as best they could.
Anyhow on the trip I discovered that my cousin Angie is a knitter. I had no idea and was so excited. I had wanted someone to gush to about knitting for such a long time. If you haven't noticed already, I tend to be extrememly long-winded. As such I think that everyone else in my life has probably had enough of my knitting talk. When I found out and started to go on and on about knitting, Angie went to get hers. I thought, "Great, I'm not the only one!"
We spent one evening sitting in the cabin, knitting and gabbing. Meanwhile my mom was knitting and teaching my aunt to knit at the same time. I've been dying to attend my local knitting group but missed the meeting when I left for this trip. We ended up having our own little knitting party instead. I had the most fun of the whole trip that evening.
It was truly wonderful to be able to relate to someone in person who is also my own age. The fact that it was a family member was even better. Knitting has been my main, well actually pretty much my only, interest since my surgery August 13th, 2004. I haven't been able to do the things other 20 somethings are doing. This frustrating fact has kept me from really relating to other women my age. I really needed it!
So on Friday I was surprised by a package in the mail from my cousin Angie. I woke up late and had to rush to a physical therapy appointment. (Oh but trust me it doesn't look like rushing. lol!) I didn't have time to open the package until my appointment was over. I didn't expect this:
I spoke at length the previous weekend about The Preemie Project. I thought maybe she had sent a yarn donation or something. This gift was totally unexpected and so sweet. Thank you Angie! Stitch 'N Bitch has been on my wishlist for so long. I've also secretly been wanting a knitting journal. Angie, you read my mind on this one. I love it! Thank you for being so supportive. I'm very lucky to have you as a cousin and a friend.
It was great to see you: Heather and Greg, Michaela, Marin and Molly, Mary, Patti. Angie, Valerie and Jenni. Hope that it's not so long between visits next time!

























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